Accelerating the Emotional Connection with Your Man

So things have been going fairly well lately.  You have met a nice guy and are allowing him into your personal space.  You have shared deep conversations about love, goals and life and feel as if you have a lot on common.  Yes, he does appear normal, sociable, intelligent and very attractive.  He also seems interested in you.  The direction you want to move now is forward, as in accelerating the emotional connection.  If you remain stagnant or move backwards the relationship could eventually fizzle out.

Nothing stimulates emotion more than physical touch.  Don’t be afraid to touch him in a polite way, but make sure it is subtle and very natural.  It’s the type of touch that could seem accidental rather than a “move.”  For example, if your man says something funny, you could lightly touch his arm as you laugh.  A man definitely notices if a woman is touching him.  This is a part of non-verbal communication.  The woman feels safe with him and desires to be emotionally and physically closer to him than before. 

Pay close attention to his reaction to increased intimacy levels.  He might pull away or refuse to touch you in return, which is a sign that the emotional bond may not quite be strong yet.  However, if he mimics the movement or returns a different sort of gesture, it could be a very positive sign.  After light touching is exchanged the next step would be to increase the quality and quantity of playful touching. 

Another important point to realize is that a man typically registers any and all touching as sexual.  (Go figure!)  Classier guys, as opposed to someone like Mick Jagger, will attempt to communicate his reciprocated sexual feelings in a civilized way.  You may get a lot of different reactions here.  He may not react at all, if he is unfamiliar with sexual tension, and is scared to death of moving either forward or backward. 

Remember, if this happens you can always take the “verbal high road” and tell him what you’re trying to do.  Being honest about these gestures doesn’t take away from the romance.  It just shows a man you’re interested.  At this stage in the relationships, that’s the most crucial factor.  You’re not playing “hard to get”…you are calm, receptive and genuinely happy to be in his presence.  You can learn more about relationships and flirting by looking for helpful guides online.

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