Irresistibility is feeling our attractiveness to such an extent that our charisma draws the people around us closer. This is one of the gifts or acts of Leadership. As we draw people to us, with integrity we can then lead them forward. It is also a great gift that we can give to our partner; it is a way of inspiring them. Irresistibility makes any job easier, because it is full of playfulness. Irresistibility know that no matter what, "How could they not love me?" It is the essential feeling to create lovableness and flow.

Today, practice your irresistibility, which is really an inner knowing it is an energy you provide to the world around you. People love attractiveness because it moves them toward something. As you irresistibly draw your partner toward you, you are offering a gift to yourself as well as to them.

Excerpt from If It Hurts, It Isn't Love and 365 Other Principles to Heal and Transform Your Relationships by Chuck Spezzano, Ph.D.