Saving Sex For Later: Can It Save Your Relationship?

Do you think you have to have sex to hold on to a guy?  Do you think sex is the most important part of a relationship?  Have you ever felt pressured into having sex to keep a guy?  If you have answered yes to these questions, read on for things you might want to consider.

Saving sex for later in a relationship may very well be a way to making your relationship last.  Too often too much emphasis is put on the chemistry and the physical aspects of a relationship, when in truth, the emotional bond is what keeps relationships going long term.  Consider some of the following thoughts about dating and sex.

1)  Recent polls say that guys really do not think about sex as much as we think.  More and more, guys are looking for a girl they can have a meaningful relationship with.  They want relationships rooted in friendship.

2)  Don't confuse love with sex; the two are not equal.  People have sex everyday that are not committed in anyway to each other.  While they say it doesn't bother them and it means nothing, at some point it will take an emotional toll on them.

3)  Sex does not help you know someone better, in fact, often once two people engage in sex, the talking stops.  They become too focused on the feeling of sex and they no longer take time to develop their feelings for each other.

4)  Some woman believe they need to have sex to hold on to a guy.  First of all, if you are not comfortable or are not ready for that step in a relationship and he continues to pressure you, he is not the guy for you.  Second, even if you give in to him, there is no guarantee your relationship will last.

If a guy loves you and you love him, you will know when the time is right for your relationship.

5)  Sex is like Christmas; once it's here the anticipation is gone and anticipation is half the fun.  Yes, we all look forward to Christmas every year, but it's the build up to Christmas, it's the build up to sex that keeps us wanting more.  So, holding off can be just as fun as actually having sex.

When you are in a relationship and you are looking for long term, saving sex for later may very well save your relationship.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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