Break Up Advice - Do the Opposite of What Feels Right

Sometimes life requires us to do the opposite of what we feel is the right and safe choice. This is never more apt than when we find ourselves in a state of emotional distress after a relationship break up. Every bone in our bodies tells us that clinging on to our relationship is surely the only way to cure ourselves of the terrible affliction of emotional pain. In reality nothing could be further from the truth because our emotions have a purpose which is to motivate us to take action; move away from the source of pain.

Walking away from a relationship does not have to be a "forever" decision because nothing in life is set in stone. It is much easier to walk away knowing that if you decide to return to the relationship that option is open to you. That is why the person who makes the initial decision to leave is often perceived to be coping better that the person who is "left behind".

By making the decision that the relationship in its present form is not what you want you send a powerful message to your emotions that all is well with the world and you are not is any distress. This one decision can relieve so much of your anxiety that is essential for you to make it. This decision will serve you in many ways:-

• Immediate reduction in stress levels
• Reduction in craving to be with your ex
• Takes the power of decision away from your ex
• Increases your self confidence when dealing with your ex

Go on do the opposite of what feels safe make the brave decision to walk away and start living again. You never know how your ex will react to their loss of power.

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